I know Jack checks out other women because he's...well, alive. But he has the good sense to either avoid doing it when he's with me or in such a stealth-like manner that it is completely undetectable to me. So it's a nonissue for us. But I know some women who think that if their husband looks at other women, he might as well be cheating. So what really constitutes a roving eye? When is looking a problem?