When I told Holly the story, her reaction floored me. "I get it," she said. In Holly's opinion, the wife's reaction wasn’t crazy; it was just emotional. Holly said that she's had similar moments in past relationships. After discovering something she didn't know (I thought he wasn't smoking, but he was) or inconsistencies in a story (he said he was hanging out at place A, but he was hanging out at place B), she had taken her own trip to OMG-I-can't-trust-hi​m land. Holly said that sometimes it’s hard not to think that the discovery of a little secret or lie is only the tip of the iceberg. Luckily, Holly and I were together for such a long time before we got married that if we ever went through this sort of thing (which really belongs in the category of "early dating problems") it's been long forgotten. I'm sure that my friend's wife will come to her senses and forgive him, but I'm curious to hear how other husbands and wives react to this story. I wonder if the men and women will see it as differently as Holly and I did. So, what do you think -- crazy, emotional...what?